these last few years have been so overcoming with alot happening in my life, I am a mother of 6, married for 8 years. I finally got full custody of my kids from previous marriage, and it wasnt cheap, shortly after, my husband got laid off from his employment of 10 years, he has been unemployed for a year and has finally got a new job driving semi truck, he is gone for atleast 2 weeks at a time and the pay is horrible, Also my daughter was in a car accident and has had numerous surgeries with still more to come, so in a eggshell, i am about to lose my house, i have put it on the market to try and sell it for what we owe, but it wont sell for that, so possibly we will be doing a short sale on the house, we havent paid credit card bills in order to make mortgage payment so we are in serious default now, our credit is shot, it has been 2 months that we havent been able to make mortgage, we need to file bankruptcy but it takes atleast 1700 of money we dont have, we are really at a loss for what to do. Everyday i pray for a miracle and something may come better to us someday. I dont mind that i am losing my house, but what scares me the most is that i may lose my family, and have no where to live, my husband trying to do a job that he has to sacrifice his family to provide and not making anything near what he use to make has been so degrading to him that he feels hopeless and he has let me down, I try to reassure him that he is doing the best he can, and that i dont blame him, I love him no matter through thicknthin but it still has it toll on us, Please if anyone out there has suggestions, resourses, a prayer all will be highly appreciated, Brenda