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Ooogasia  

help me please, help in time of need: SINGLE MOM- WORKS FT AS A CASHIER- HOURS ARE BEING CUT TO 10- 14 HRS A

SINGLE MOM- WORKS FT AS A CASHIER- HOURS ARE BEING CUT TO 10- 14 HRS A WEEK

RENT IS DUE ON JUNE 1- BILLS ARE COMING IN LEFT && RIGHT......... WHAT AM I GOING TO DO- STILL HAVE TO KEEP FOOD ON THE TABLE- LANDLORD STATED IN THE LEASE- HE DOESN'T CARE WHAT IS GOING ON WITH HIS TENANTS HE WANTS HIS MONEY

I'm at this BREAKING POINT && I don't have ANYONE to turn to for help && I have been looking && looking in my county && there is NOTHING... I have been doing soooo good but in the last going on 2 months my hours at work just seem to be getting lower && I'm looking for a second job && I can't even find that right now... MaaaN I am sooooo STRESSED OUT- CRYING- DEPRESSED && SCARED NOT JUST FOR ME BUT I have a 3 year old to think about also

I soooo didn't know this was going to happen I have been with my job now for a year && thought it was stable hours so I have put in to be called when help is needed at my store or any other store-- I put myself first on the list

I NEED HELP && NEEDING IT BEFORE I'M PUT OUT-- PLEASE SOMEONE HELP ME

SERIOUS HELP-- SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY NEED TO GET AHOLD OF ME.... IF YOUR WILLING TO HELP THEN MONEY WILL BE DIRECTLY PAID TO THE LANDLORD HIMSELF...... RUN OF THE FUNDS NEEDS TO BE AVAILABLE FOR HIM TO CHECK OR MYSELF...... NOT GETTING SCAMMED DESPERATE BUT NOT DESPERATE ENOUGH TO GET INTO MORE THAN I CAN HANDLE RIGHT NOW... SERIOUS INQUIRIES ONLY CAN GET AHOLD OF ME:

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Anonymous  

Can't Pay My Rent, Scared to be out in the street!

OK, I'm really having a tough time on my miserable low paying job.
My rent is due tomorrow and I'm going to be $450 short.
AND, that's only if I don't eat for the next 2 weeks. Then, there's Xmas coming up and I have NO MONEY and my credit card is at MAX>
Not a lot of excuses, just overspending and took some money to visit family during Thanksgiving. I'm really paying for it now and I don't have the credit too get a loan. Also, my landlord is a real bastard! Last time I was late, he gave me a 3 day notice to quit, without any conscience. I don't want to go through that again. Besides $990 / month for a dumpy studio is a rip off, but I can't find anything cheaper in the L.A. Area.
If all my friends would chip in a few dollars, I could make up the difference real quick. If you are not a friend and just want to help out, I will gladly accept any donations from AidPage contributors. If interested in helping out, I can only repay you with thanks and a prayer. I'm not a fraud and I'm not a thief. I'm just down on my luck. If interested in helping, I have a PayPal account. Thanks and God Bless.

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helpfordesperate  

What do I do Now

these last few years have been so overcoming with alot happening in my life, I am a mother of 6, married for 8 years.  I finally got full custody of my kids from previous marriage, and it wasnt cheap, shortly after, my husband got laid off from his employment of 10 years, he has been unemployed for a year and has finally got a new job driving semi truck, he is gone for atleast 2 weeks at a time and the pay is horrible, Also my daughter was in a car accident and has had numerous surgeries with still more to come,   so in a eggshell, i am about to lose my house, i have put it on the market to try and sell it for what we owe, but it wont sell for that, so possibly we will be doing a short sale on the house, we havent paid credit card bills in order to make mortgage payment so we are in serious default now, our credit is shot, it has been 2 months that we havent been able to make mortgage, we need to file bankruptcy but it takes atleast 1700 of money we dont have, we are really at a loss for what to do.   Everyday i pray for a miracle and something may come better to us someday. I dont mind that i am losing my house, but what scares me the most is that i may lose my family, and have no where to live, my husband trying to do a job that he has to sacrifice his family to provide and not making anything near what he use to make has been so degrading to him that he feels hopeless and he has let me down,  I try to reassure him that he is doing the best he can, and that i dont blame him, I love him no matter through thicknthin but it still has it toll on us, Please if anyone out there has suggestions, resourses, a prayer all will be highly appreciated, Brenda

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tprincesst  

About tprincesst

I am in desperate need of help. Things are getting worse by the day.  I have always helped others (thats what started this mess incurring medical bills from an ex), work fundraisers for St Jude now I need help and there is none.  I have no family..only child, mother deceased father hasnt spoken to me in 12 years and wants me to lose everything.  Public assistance cannot help because I "own" a home and vehicle.  They dont consider mortgage or car payments I guess.

My mortgage became adjustable in Oct and went from $850/mo to $1250, I started to fall behind and behind on property taxes which they paid and now escrowed my mortgage. payments are now $1650/mo nothing included..I couldnt afford that when I was working.

I lost my job in January due to the economy and Unemployment pays $289/wk.  I am falling farther and farther behind daily.  Attempted to refinance but cant with bad credit, and no income. Tried modification and was ripped off my 2 agencies..now I am out $2200 and no help. Foreclosure has begun.  I need serious dental work done but cannot afford it, I am now clinically depressed and will lose everything.

I am looking for a loan not a hand out.  $180,000 would pay off my mortgage and get them off my back and a little extra for dental work (I owe $178,000).  I can afford up $700-800/mo as a repayment.  I have lost everything else in my life I cannot lose my health and my home too. 

 

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No where to turn!  

About No where to turn!

Hello, my name is Andrea Kennedy and I am 22 years old. I am married to a wonderful man who is going to school full-time and working a part-time job. Now because of the situation we are in he is looking once again for full time work but it doesn't seem to be out there. I am also a full time student and we are doing the very best we can to make something of ourselves. We have a 4 months old beautiful little girl. On February 6th 2009 my husband and were both laid off from the company we both worked at. We searched for jobs but there were none to be found. Instead of sitting around doing nothing we went back to school. We can't pay our bills, we are about to lose our home which isn't even in any condition for human beings to reside in, but we have nothing else, the mortgage is only 292.42 a month. We can barely keep the lights and water on, which run about 200.00 per month. We have already lost our car and am having to use my father's vehicle for transportation. I don't have a drivers license because I got a speeding ticket and can't afford to pay it. We have exhausted our families, because they have been paying our bills for more than a year. We tried filling bankruptcy because we were being sued but that costs money. I never thought I would be on the internet begging for money but we really need help. I can make one promise though: I am going to school to be a Pharmacist and when I am making money I will not spend wildly on things that we do not need I will help others who are in my condition. I promise if someone helps me I will help others as soon as I am able. Please, someone out there hear my cry's. I need to be able to finish school so I can give my daughter the life she dissevers and so we can make it through this. 

I dont have a pay pal account or anything like that because I don't have any reason for one but if thats what it takes I will set one up.

My email is andrea.kennedy@live.com.

Please help a family in need, I am not exaggerating and we do need help.

Thank You to anyone who at least reads this and considers our needs. 

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AshleyMarie  

About AshleyMarie

I am a soon to be single mother who can not afford to pay basic bills.  I have a 3 year old daughter.  I live in a place where even college graduates can find no work.  I am desperate and need help.  I have no way to repay.  I am currently searching for jobs but with daycare cost vs. pay and I have no place to live.  Most subsidized are based off your credit.I feel lost....and I can't live with myself not to be able to take care of my baby...us.

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suicyco  

About suicyco

My wife and I are in our mid 30's with a 13 year old son and a 3 year old daughter. We've both always worked hard and made enough to get by until last year. I got ill and worked through it until I wasnt able to get out of the bed one day. A trip to the hospital revealed I had contracted rhuematic fever and in turn had severely damaged the majority of my joints and bone ends that were already damaged due to lifelong atheritis, I was very fortunate that it did not get to my heart. Ever since I have been crippled by the joint damage and pain. I am 100% disabled with being in a wheelchair a garuntee in my near future as my legs and hips can no longer support my body for any period of time. I can barely even hold our daughter anymore. Not even a month later my wife ruptured her back while making a dress for our daughter and with 2 torn disks, 4 slipped and a previously undiscovered spinal disease her diagnosis is the same as mine- 100% disabled and soon to be in a wheelchair as well. We have burned through every penny we had saved, sold everything that we own aside from the barest neccesities and now we are going to be homeless soon. The state sent the sherrif's sale notification due to failure to pay propery taxes and the mortgage company issued the foreclosure notice. The electricity has been off for 2 months (I'm writing from the nieghbors) and still no word from the dissability aside from another 90-120 days before they make thier 1st decision. I've never been one to ask for help but in the face of my children having no home to live in and the loss of everything we still have and quite possibly our family since the state will take the kids once we reach destitude status I'm asking now. Please if anything can be done or if there are any laws that will delay our losing our home during the process, please help us.

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HopelessinHuntsville  

About HopelessinHuntsville

Life has always been a struggle but it is about to sink me now.  I got hurt @ a fast food job and had little income for 3 months, had surgery on the knee and found a part time job to try to make up for the income loss.  Couldn't continue to stand 9 hours a day so had to leave the fast food job which didn't pay me for my two weeks notice.  Now my job is 30 minutes away and my car blew a head gasket. No money to fix it and no friends to get me to the other side of town to catch a ride to work.  If I can't work my daughter and I will be out on the streets. I also do photography and art work but can't find anyone interested in my stuff.
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rose4040  

why I might be able to help someone

I am a survivor of so many different kinds of situations it's really kinda mind boggling. Starting from being a childhood survivor of physical and mental abuse from my father to domestic abuse by my first husband and a boyfriend in between my two husbands. To surviving drug and alcohol abuse, my own and the exes. I've had my children removed from me for "exposing them to domestic abuse" and I've earned my parental rights and my children back. I had 11 years of a good relationship with a man who taught me that I deserved to be loved and not blamed for anyone else's bad behavior. I survived my depression, suicidal behavior and drug/alcohol relapses after my husband was killed. I actually lived under a bridge for a month during the two years of lost time after his death and eventually I survived all the psych medications I was put on during those years also.  Four years ago I stopped taking all those meds and woke up again! I took my two sons back from my oldest son, who found himself responsible for their care when he was 19 after I gave him the boys and power of attorney because I felt I wasn't' being a good enough mother to them. Since then we've lost a mobile home in Hurricane Wilma, lived in a 30 foot FE MA trailer, and worked my way back into another mobile home. Today, my boys (oldest one included) and I live in a beautiful home in a nice area. I take care of my teens and my grandsons (for Joey who's separated from their Mom) and I know that I'm needed by them all. We're having a tough Christmas season but we all know that there are more important things than presents this time of year.   My teens didn't want me to put them on any charity lists...they want the younger kids who need help to know that they are loved too! They know that they are loved....by God...and me.  

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allalone&feelnit  

About allalone&feelnit

i am a mother that just got divorced after being in an abusive relationship for 7 years. i am 25 and have a wonderful new family. problem is my boyfriend is in jail. i have a 5 yr old daughter and have become step mom to a 5 yr old girl, an 8 yr old girl and a 20 yr old son. all of us are really having a difficult time with him in there. i have no other family that speaks to me and neither does he. i need him out here. i can't do it all by myself. i have even tried to take my clothes off for money and can't seem to even keep enough food on the table let alone get him out. i am so lost and confused, where do i start. we are going to lose all of our stuff in storage soon and even our place to live. he is a super awsome guy that just made some wrong choices. please help

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wildcat  

About wildcat

Hello. I am a mother of 2 and I am not one for asking for help. I know that I should have a long time ago.If I had I would not be where I am today. I am so far under with bills it has effected my daily life. I am working part time but looking for full time work. I would even work 2 jobs if there was any availible around here. I guess what I am trying to say is I really need some kind of help to get me back on my feet. I am actually to the point of moving me and my children in to a shelter, and I do not want to do that. For years I have been the one people called for help. And I always gave to the occasion. I even helped a friend from losing her home not once but twice. And now that I am in need those people are not around. If you could just give me some information that could help I would apriciate it. I have turned to God and prayed daily. Maybe that is how I came across this web site.The car dealership will probebly come and pick up my used car in the morning. That is how bad it has gotten. So now I am desparate.PLEASE HELP. And may God Bless you. I live in upper Alabama

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michelle0279  

About michelle0279

I am a 28 year old female who has just gotten out of a bad relationship where i made very stupid decisions. Now I am fixing to lose every thing I have. Please help me. I have a website set up with products for sale I have had it for a few months now. If you would like to help but get something in return you can check it out at www.trugifts.net. You need a giftcard for the first purchase this can be recieved my email. Thank you to anyone who is willing to help.

 

 

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barbiedoll  

help me pleease

I need help so badly. Please i need $800.00 like yesterday. My family is hungry and i am about to lose everything.   PLEASE     EMAIL ME AT   barbiedoll72937@hotmail.com

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